I always thought of myself to date the inner beauty of men. I have dated my fair share of not so attracted men. People always ask me ” What the hell were you thinking” and i always say the same thing. ” He was a nice guy.”

With that said my last dating disaster was a guy named… well let’s leave out his name. He was the most immature, selfish, irresponsible man i have ever met. He was the type of guy who’s life never will change, he will hunt, fish, drink every night. If your waiting for him, then you will be waiting forever. My last true straw is when i saw how irresponsible he was with his own dog, an adorable 2 year old lab who was at home sick. Instead of going home after work to check on her, he just goes out for 5 hours to drink. So i went to his house and checked on the dog myself, a poor dog shouldn’t suffer because he owner is a completely douchabag! But, before i left, i wrote a note to him that said “Do me a favor—lose my #” However, i know he would immediately call me to find out why i would leave such a note, but i turned my phone off….i cant even bare to hear his voice. I always felt like his back up plan and a last resort, but not anymore.

So long….

~ADD

Knowing that she broke up with a long-term boyfriend about 6 months ago, you don’t want to come on too strong. Gathering your courage, you suggest going out for pizza on Saturday afternoon. You’re happy when she accepts, and aggress to meet you at the local pizza parlor. You yourself are no stranger to break-ups; you’ve had a nasty break-up in your not too distant past, as well. Not wanting to scare her off or psych yourself out, you are happy with your choice of location and hope that she is too. Besides, if everything goes well, the pizza joint will be a good spot to look back on as “the first date” place. One thing you really like about this restaurant is its casual atmosphere. An eclectic mix of music plays over the sound system — sometimes it’s U2 and acoustic Beatles, other times it’s Kid Rock or even the Dixie Chicks. You never can tell. While waiting for your pie, you can sip a beer or a glass of wine and challenge your date to a relaxing game of air hockey. You can tell a lot about a person in the way they approach pool or air hockey tables. Will she hang back and let you make the first move? Will she be aggressive and competitive while still having fun? It may sound crazy, but a good game of air hockey can really give you insight into a person’s makeup. You’ll learn fast that if she’s fiercely competitive, she may also insist on being right all the time. That may not be what you’re looking for. If she’s timid and shy, she may be that way in other aspects of her life, and afraid to take chances. Unless you’re looking to mentor her, a tendency to downplay her playing abilities may indicate she’s in the market for someone who’s more of a father figure than a partner. However, if she plays, laughs and has fun, she’s probably going to be the right girl for you. If she’s able to poke fun at her own mistakes, and doesn’t pout if you happen to win, you’ve chosen a girl who will at least be fun in the short term. Where you take it from here is completely up to you. But, if you truly have a fun relaxing time that leads to a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or even more dates, you can say that it all came about from a good pizza and some friendly air hockey.