Online dating and regular dating often see a ‘manual’ of how often to contact a person. Rules have stated you have to wait a couple of days before responding, or maybe test the person by not responding two seconds after you receive a message. On the other hand with married men they tend to take quite a different approach. Their responses are going to be erratic. First they may not respond unless they are at work where the wife will not see the emails. So you may get responses during the day rather than at night.

A lot of men tend to stay up later or access their emails right after work. This means that if the response is near ten pm, there are several days or a week between responses, or maybe they send a message during work hours you probably have a married man on the hook. You should also note that unmarried men tend to be quicker with responses when they really like the person they are talking with rather than playing the dating game rules.