I recently had the opportunity to debrief a few sales associates in the course of conducting some research and intelligence on a nearby competitor. This competitor is a fierce recruiter that is known for their emotional recruiting tactics and close-knit family style. They have enjoyed decent agent growth due to their taking advantage of a disruption in a couple of other companies. In short, they are doing exactly what any good recruiting, expanding and growth-oriented company should be doing. They’re keeping a close eye and open ear in the marketplace.Over the last couple of weeks our brokerage has recruited back a couple of the agents we had lost to this competitor, plus we were able to pick up a few more that had become disillusioned in their experience at the company. It didn’t take long to see that there was a pattern and common theme with the experiences of all these associates while affiliated with this innovative competitor.

It’s time for all of us to wake up and smarten up. We’re being used and abused by the media. Everywhere we look we’re being pressured into believing that we need to be sexier, sexier and…. sexier. Take some pills to get it up! It doesn’t matter if you die of heart failure, someone  someplace in the world will sell you those pills. Cause, you know, if you can’t pole vault with your manhood, you’re destined to be alone and unloved!
Ladies! How about bigger breasts, smaller thighs, thicker hair, smoother skin, sexier jeans, weight loss… come on now! Don’t you want to catch a man and be loved??? Well you can’t be loved if you aren’t sexy enough.

The bottom line here folks is profits!!!! Smell the money! Watch your money leave your pocket and fly into the hands of a bunch of lying bastards that are in the business of stealing your money and your self image.

Smarten up! Sex is beautiful with someone you love and you know what? If you really love someone then, sex is beautiful with them. PERIOD!!!! What is sex? It isn’t necessarily the actual act of sex. It is intimacy between two people. That can be many things and must be defined only by the people involved.

People are dying to have sex! Not kidding! AIDS, HIV, HEP, STDS, etc. Is it really worth it just to paw your way through a new crowd of one night stands?

It’s time for us to all stand up and scream, “I’m not going to take it anymore!” “I am a worthy human being who is not going to be judged by the size of my erection or breasts.” Love is not sex. Love can become a lifetime relationship and partnership. Sex cannot!

Visit http://www.notlookingforsex.com and you’ll find some very nice people who have seen how beautiful the gift of love and relationship is and want that gift for themselves. They put love and relationship before sex.

For a woman to truly feel cherished, she needs to be constantly reminded that she is loved. Sometimes men think that one grand gesture should have him off the hook for a long time. Let’s equate a woman’s heart to a car’s gas tank. One grand gesture is like trying to go to the station and put 100 gallons in the tank so it will run for a long time. It’s just not how it works – paying for 100 gallons still only gets you about 2 weeks of driving before you have to fill up again. The simple explanation is that women forget how the gesture made her feel. To keep her the happiest, I suggest planning a small romantic surprise about every two weeks.
Men are more like bank accounts – if you put in a big deposit – every penny counts and it should last you a while. A woman is able to make a combination of different sized deposits to keep her man happy. Maybe a big romantic gesture one month and a small one next month. In a man’s world – one carefully planned, great romantic surprise could last him several months! To keep him happiest, I suggest planning a romantic surprise about every six weeks – using a combination of small and bigger treats for him.
Men are expected to be there for the big days such as holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries. If they don’t show up big for those, then they hear about it until the next time around. But one of the best ways to show your affection to a woman is to do something romantic when there’s no specific reason to celebrate. Keep her on her toes. Keep her guessing. Don’t just show up on the days when you know you’re on the wrong side of an argument or when everything is going right for you. It is all about her and the celebration of her. That said, try to do something romantic for her 3 to 4 times a month. Women are all about the little things because when we do something often, it shows that we are constantly thinking about them and that we care.
Men like to be rewarded for their actions. When they have been on a great streak in the relationship and seem to be saying and doing all the right things – that is the time to reward them. Otherwise it can become very frustrating and it turns that part of the man’s brain off to be creative and do things for her.
There is a give and take process that is extremely important to men, and if that is disturbed enough times than the giving from his side will not only decrease, but begin to lack in the creativity department as well. Men like bigger gestures but less frequently than women. Therefore, as a guy I would say something romantic once a month or so is what we look for.